"My life is a living hell."
"The people who know me, are just using me for their personal gain/glory/spite..."
"I can't get any."
Yeah, these are the words that people use all the time to incorporate their lives as being negative. They are always pessimistic, negative, and through their own attitude nothing goes their way. Not only they are the characteristics they exhibit, but these types of people while in their state of mind, scare the living crap out of me, because they are talking in extremes; almost depression-like. It's ok, for your life in a short time to be in a tailspin or not have things go your way, but it's not ok to make this your personal life agenda. There's "psychological disorders" and is one of the key symptoms of depression...even those in asymptomatic patients.
"So, what do these people need?"
Get some tail! If your married, spice up or life, or if your spouse is the source of the problems, then divorce that fucker. Do things that make you smile, and not go off into temper tantrum rants, and a complete utter apathetic way of loathing. Nobody is asking for you to accept your life as being one complete fuckbag who douches out the insides of his/her laptop, after getting it on to clearly illegal Asian Porn.
Stop making your life seem so depressing. Make a life changing plan. Go back to college, and may be not relive those days, but go and get a new degree in the field that you want. Even if it's from bumhole tech, which has very little accreditation; at least it is better than living in your 9-5 job, preaching the hells of what you call the doldrums of your life. People simply don't like those kinds of people all the time. They are grouches, kill the moods, even worse than people like I who make bad jokes, and then have to be threatened to be kicked out of parties.
I know this person from college, and he's a good person, very intelligent, heck he's got me beat as a better dresser, makes a lot more money than I do, has free-time to do projects, etc. and complains about his life that people do not meet the required needs to him. He blames this as the utter disappointment of the human race, because nobody can't relate to him; and although he does have a few friends, he's relatively lonely, and cuts himself off to communication. I think his claim is that "ALL PEOPLE ARE STUPID!"
Ok, a lot of times, I do feel that "My God, people are stupid too..." especially knowing myself and all the stupid things that comes out of our mouths at times. But, it doesn't give yourself to make it your ambition in life. Apparently, people say stupid things, and some are
Now, why do you have only a few friends, complain and be relatively lonely and have this method of life to be omnipotent. Nobody gives a flying fuck when your being omnipotent and a total drag on life; it only gives an individual to determine that this person is not managable and childly. Nobody wants to take care of a 4-year-old, unless you actually have children; and if the guy is old enough to be an adult, it gives no right to determine that a person is/should be a baby and then ask for friends and not be lonely. It's just clear and simple. People like to be treated like human beings, unless your from some fundamentalist country, or oppression is your sexual fetish.
One thing people need to notice is that your life being a living hell has a definite self-contribution part to the equation. If you influence your own demise in life, or you don't allow yourself to be fully prepared for the good, the bad and the ugly, the events, the feelings and the experiences one gets appears sarcastic. In other words, change your life for once, and stop being "A GLOOMY GUS."
